In society, there are many stereotypes about the roles of women and men; and it gets more obvious, when it comes to domestic and child-care matters.
If you follow my blog, you will know that my husband is in-charge of the night feeds (Any feeds during twilight hours 12am-6am), while I will handle the REST of the hours. Of cuz, when people get to know of such arrangements, they'll always exclaim that I have a great husband. Erm... which of cuz, he really is a great partner to be with because he is responsible towards our home matters but by default, he is a great man and thats probably why I married him?
Our husbands should not feel that when they perform chores at home, feed or change the baby, they are helping their wives. It is a very stupid way of thinking. To me, it's the least one could do. Everyone has a responsibility in the household so they are simply doing their part.